I came to the conclusion that ‘helping’ and ‘submission’ go together
Yes, now we get to the nitty-gritty. You hoped I would find a way out, but I did not. In the New Testament, a woman’s submission to her husband is spelled out quite plainly, both by Paul and Peter. Paul calls this ‘sound doctrine’ (Titus 2:1), and Peter, an ‘imperishable quality’ (I Peter 3:4, 5).